Drifted: Girl Talk

An ex-ofcmate dropped by recently and we had some chikahan session. Usually you'll have some kamustahan conversation on common friends, something that goes like this.

Kamusta na si A? Ah we lost contact. Kamusta naman si B? Matagal ko na hndi nakakausap. Eh si C? Ah 2 years ko na hindi nakikita. Bottomline is, we somehow 'drifted'. And I got a giggle as a response to the term that I used. Drifted is such a nice, profound term, isnt it? :)

Sometimes we just dont realize that some friendships have 'drifted' away. Nobody makes a deliberate effort to keep in touch, and therefore awkwardness slowly sets in. Till the day we become total strangers.

It does happen, maybe not so frequent or maybe it's actually quite frequent but you just failed to notice. It's life.

This Jan, I got reunited with one of my best girl friends in Manila. Finally we met again and had a long chat. We were planning to go out but our schedule doesnt seem to coincide. I already had 2 lakads the day she called, I was moved when she offered to meet me in Binondo in between the 'gaps', and there we had some bonding over coffee at Seattles near my home.

Just last night she popped some ym messages about her problems. From her kwentos, seems like she's being treated like trash. (I feel for her coz once in a while, I also feel like one). Anyway, the main thing that struck me is her message 'sana andito ka :('... Aww so sweet.. so sad.. I hope she'll be fine.