I guess most of my female friends are somehow same in thinking wavelengths with me, except for this. She seems to have built an annoying reputation quite well. Sorry for being honest...
1) Unbelievable
Kept saying that she'll take a leave on my December vacation last time. I know this is much to expect from her. 'Sabihin mo sa kin pag nakabook ka na, magleleave talaga ako para bonding tayo'
Then I gave her my leave dates.
Then I reached Manila, waiting for what she has to say
'Ay sorry d pla ako pwede magleave kasi naunahan ako, tawag ka na lng tom night, usap tayo sa phone'
Yeah right.
I called her the night after, she's out. I smsed her, 'hey I called u and you were out daw'. Well at least I did my part.
Then she smsed me back late in the night around 12midnight, 'ei sorry nalimutan ko, niyaya kasi ako ng friend ko magpafootspa so kakauwi ko lng'
Grrh you just push yourself out from trusted people list. Lang kwenta.
2) Strange lifestyle
I hate to say this but I somehow dont like people who overspend beyond their means.
She has a simple job in a bank that pays very modest, ok it's a little above minimum wage. From her stories, she has enrolled in a gym that costs 2.5k per month, she uses expensive branded make-ups and perfumes. From what she said, every payday is always 'quits', or sometimes negative.
And she has the urge to drop a hint to her suitor to buy her a lacoste bag that costs 4.5k php, and she got it and still display fb pictures using it, despite dumping the suitor. Poor guy
3) Invalid reasons
When she met her fiance, she told me she was having doubts because of 'chiong'.
She hardly speaks fookien and mandarin well, and far from being a very traditional filchi. How in the earth can a filchi from this generation to still bother about 'chiong'? This 'chiong' refers to bad luck in marriage for couples with 6yr-gap.
4) Not so convincing
"Les, pag kinasal ako, uwi ka, ikaw sa prayer ha."
Ok this prayer-thing is not appealing to me. Normally if we are very close friends, I would suppose u'd place me on entourage. Am I wrong here? My sister didnt place me in prayer before. :p
5) Dont you have shame
She asked me previously whether she can stay over at my house if she does visit sg, I answered 'sure'
Then she asked me again in fb, "uy sa next holiday punta kami ni bf pati si X and her bf. Bka pwedeng yun mga boys sa sala tpos siksik na lng kami sa room mo".
My goodness 2 couples going to SG, wala ka bang pambayad ng motel? I guess at our age, we probably can forge out few pennies for a hostel stay? And I dont like it that if I extended an invitation to you, you pass it on to more people that I dont even personally know.
I answered, 'oops parang masikip ata, tska may mga housemates ako eh. Pwede ka pa rin stay sa kin, here's the list of hostel, I can help the other 3 book a room if you want'. I sent the fb message a day after because I dont really check my fb inbox every single day.
She didnt reply, and after a few days I asked her again hows the plan going
She answered, 'ay ndi na kami tuloy, d ka kasi nagreply agad eh'...
#$#$#! If you need an urgent answer, well you can always call me up right? Pa-guilty effect. Sorry try harder next time.
6) Invalid reasons again
She was in her blues about relocating with her fiance to london, who works there as a nurse. Well in some way, I can relate to her goosebumps, about starting anew in a country without familiar faces.
So in an attempt to console her, I asked her ok what are your concerns. I was expecting she'd mentioned about her dad as I remembered she said something before that her dad has some sickness.
Her reply is 'natatakot ako wala akong kakilala dun, at ndi ko na makikita lumaki ang pamangkin ko!'
Brrh. i dont like it when titas tend to overreact about pamangkins. Her pamangkin is just a newborn whom I dont think they have too much bonding moments. Well I also care for my pamangkins. Just that isnt it an overkill to use them as a major excuse. Besides, 'hindi ikaw ang nanay!'. Go and multiply, you will have your own kids soon.
7) Overly pacute language ang status in fb, nosebleeding type. the worst is:
'i saw my look-alike Anne Curtis yesterday!'
??? What? Parang malayo ah. She looks ok, but not the pretty head-turning type.
Ok kidding aside, to be fair, what annoys me is that she is exactly the same way she used to be in high school. Her maturity and personality seem to have stopped from there. :p
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